LDR, I’ve done it with my husband, it’s tough but it was even harder when he had to work in China while my son and I just come and ‘visit’.

As for chicken issues, I believe it is the same between me and him, there are always those guys/gals that tries to get more then just our attention. We always meet people anywhere, not during traveling only. The tough part is long distance relationship. I’m not an LDR believer because it never worked for me. Not that I don’t trust my partner, but know myself well that I cannot commit to that sort of relationship. I suppose it is different when you are married to each other but like you said, I bet it is difficult.

I agree with you on the bragging issues, like it’s a trophy to parade different guys these girls can snatched. Sad, really sad and pathetic for sure. Will have to dig into your archive to see your interesting writing about the “chicks” (am a fan already btw! ).

OMG, the ’staring-rape’ at first when I read that online I thought wth? But when we were at one of the big supermarket in Guangzhou, it happened. Since we have a little boy whose easily bored during grocery shopping, we’ve always walk separately. I’ll get the stuffs that we need while hubby tries to entertain the lil’ man by pushing him in the cart and do whatever it is necessary to keep him from being bored. At that time I was looking for tonic water from my gin. The shop attendant speaks very tiny bit of English and after I failed to describe tonic water, I just walked away off to see the other isle but not before I told hubby that they don’t have it. Hubby was right behind me when I was talking to that girl. It wasn’t until I got to the next isle when I heard her talked to hubby in her broken English. “Yes, she’s my wife!” Curious, I made a u-turn and saw her just standing there trying to engage so hard in a conversation with him while giving him this porn star look. He ignored her and quickly pushed the cart away and grab my hand. Disgusted is too much of a low term for how I felt that day, I wish could biotch-slap that girl right there and then. I mean, c’mon…at least have some decency to do whatever filthy tricks up her sleeves somewhere else, not in front of a 2 years old. Scary for sure. And that’s just a tiny bit of the “chicks” tricks in China.

About this “chicks”, well I’ve written about it a couple of times in my blog. Even now I am still shocked to see some people can put themselves so low like that for money, and have no respect whatsoever towards the marriage institution. Sometimes they even brag about it. So pathetic.

Elaborate more about this “staring-rape” thing! It sounds very scary!