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My Love-Hate Affair with Jakarta

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Things I will miss if I move back to the US: My immediate-big-crazy-obnoxious-families of course – do I need to say more?! The authentic Indonesian foods – Most definitely, I will find myself hunting for the right ingredients at an Asian Market or ordering it online with a more expensive price tags of course then slaving away in the kitchen, just for the sake of satisfying the craves of the delicious food from home. The beauty salons – There is no way in the world you can get a 2 hours hair spa treatment plus arms massage (sometimes back if you have my ‘guy’!) for $4! Let alone a 2.5 hours of spa treatments (full body scrub, massage, steam, and .....

7 Fashion NO NOs in Jakarta

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Forewarning: This entry is created for entertainment purposes only. If you are easily offended, feel free to close the window or browse along other topics. After observing some of the fashion trends in Jakarta, I had an idea to put up a list of things you should not try to pull (with some exceptions of course!) in Jakarta. SKINNY JEANS: Dudes, please do not try to pull the skinny jeans style if you don’t have the built for it. Unless you are a rock star with mile long legs, seeing an average Joe wearing one is just wrong and there is probably only 10% of the population that can wear skinny jeans. CROCS: Yeah, they look cute on babies and .....

Want To Marry Indonesian Woman? You Better Be Rich, Really Rich!

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Only two days after I posted the link to the news about Proposed Marriage Bill (RUU) that claim to protect Indonesian women’s welfare by making the future ‘foreign’ husband pay Rp. 500,000,000 (yep that’s million!) or equivalent of 53,792.361 USD as per today’s exchange rate, I got so many replied on my Facebook page. Apparently, the Religious Department is mulling over this bill again. This bill isn’t new. It was a hot debate topic and had caused strong opposition from Indonesian women back in 2005, many had thought the bill didn’t pass and life goes on. So to hear the bill has been brought to life is well…revolting to say the least! This Indonesian scholar, Nuning Hallet had written a .....

Makassar – Revisited

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Knowing that I was born and still have families in Makassar, South Sulawesi, DH decided to took us along with him for one of the outstation audit program. Since my mom and bothers couldn’t make it, I took my aunt with us. We suppose to leave Jakarta at 4:30 PM but around 10:00 AM, DH called and told me an accident had happened with one of their fleet so he will have to stay behind and took care of things but he will try to hop on the last flight to Makassar that night or the first flight out in the morning. Thanks God my aunt was there! Our flight was delayed for almost an hour and it’s really hard .....

Birthday Bash – Indonesian Style

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This past week had gone by so fast with blurry images of birthday, birthday, birthday. Part of me is glad that the birthday party is over and now all I have to do is to recover from it LOL. Our precious Lil’ A turned 3 years old on December 7, 2009 but since it fell on Monday and no one threw a birthday party on weekdays here, we postponed the party until last Saturday, a good 5 days later. Even before we picked the date for the party, I was overwhelmed by how much it takes to throw a kids birthday party here even for a simple one. Perhaps the definition of simple here are just different than what DH .....

Balikpapan, Revisited

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On Friday, November 20th, we had a chance to tag DH along for his business trip to Balikpapan. Knowing that I spent some years living in Borneo before, made him wanting to take all of us there for the short trip. Last time I went there was in October 2007 with Lil’ A when he was only 7 months old to visit my parents who were still living in that city so I was excited to visit the oil city. We took the first flight out of Jakarta, scheduled for 6:40 AM. Poor DH still had to finish up some works the night before and stayed up till 2:00 AM. Sure enough I had a hard time waking him up .....

Fear Not

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Yesterday I had a chance to visit Marriott Hotel after so many years. Last time I was there was way before the first bomb in 2003. These recent bombings changed a lot of the hotel’s outer appearance from how I remembered it. Being there again after knowing that hotel has gone through two bombings attacks kind of give me chills thinking of those darkest days of the hotel history and most of all of the innocents’ people fell victims of such a cruel acts. My brother who is currently working there told me where the blast originated and how the whole restaurant we were sitting at got ruined. Now the whole place looks amazing, packed with people enjoying their delicious .....

Ayam and Solo Mothering

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A friend of mine asked a very intriguing question awhile back, you know that kind of question that a little mind boggling you just have to write about it. She’s also a mixed couple with children who recently moved back to Jakarta due to her husband’s job, much similarities to my own. Like mine, her hubby’s job also involved a lot of traveling, thus the question “How do you deal with it?”, “Do you ever worry about the ‘ayams*’ here?” arises. Let’s answer the first question… How do I deal with it? Meaning how to do I cope with our marriage and parenting issues while DH is traveling a lot for work?  Well, I think there’s no one size fits .....

Happy Eid

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Eid ul-Fitr (Idul Fitri/Lebaran in Indonesian language) always brought so many beautiful childhood memories for me even when I’m not a Moslem. Growing up mainly in two small towns tucked in eastern parts of Indonesia that some never even heard before, Idul Fitri was special day celebrated not only by the Moslem but by everyone in the neighborhoods. It’s a vice versa tradition for Christmas too. I still remember how my mother will be so busy in the kitchen days before the big day arrives. She’ll bake her signature famous pumpkin cake (and some other stuff that I can’t really remember now) and usually I was the delivery girl. Oh, how I love the smell of that pumpkin cake and .....

Happy Independence Day, Indonesia

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Indonesia, my home country celebrated its 64th Independence Day just two days ago on August 17, 2009. I will not go too deep in history here to keep things on a lighter note. After being outside the country for about 4 years, this year marked my first Independence Day here and I was pretty excited hoping to see some celebration like any other Indonesians are used to when they’re growing up. Unfortunately, the complex my parents live had nothing, nada, zero…you get the point, to commemorate the special day other than the regular raising your flags starting in early August. Made me wonder if it’s because this area is a tad more upscale to perform such traditionalism manners? Or simply .....

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