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No Matchmaker

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photo credit: Robboguy An old friend from college chatted with me a couple of days ago asking one of the ‘famous’ questions that us Indonesian women who married to white men often hears. “Do you know a single bule* guy?” Apparently she has a friend, let’s name her “Betty” who just broke up with a white guy here and that girl is so brokenhearted but not wanting to date Indonesians. Now, I’m not going to attack that girl for her taste in dating white guys because I too had actually stopped dating locals’ years before I met DH. It got nothing to do with the ‘trending lifestyle’ as some would put it, for me it’s a matter of personal choices. .....

7 Things I Learned From Sex and The City

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Been a fan of Sex and The City for years now, had watched the show religiously even had my full seasons collection. Yes, the clothes, shoes and purses are to die for but for me they have more meaning (and I’m not that fashionista myself!) and here’s what I learned from that 4 fabulous ladies: ●   Boyfriends – or in Samantha’s case boy toys – will come and goes but real friendships will stay for a lifetime! ●   True friends may not approve your choices in life – but they will support you none the less! ●   If they don’t agree to your choices they’ll tell it like it is, in your face – not behind your back! ●   .....

Laughters, 10 Years Later

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Was invited to a small college reunion by one of my friend on Friday. This one friend and I haven’t met for a year but it was longer for the others, some I did met 5 years ago when I was still working here and the rest, well I just haven’t seen them since we left college. As always I had to left early and got there way earlier than everybody else who’s working and didn’t show up until after 6PM. Luckily my friend Cheena (her name is Rini but we always calls her Cheena) came early tooand we had a chance to do a quickie  catch-up before the others came. One by one the girls showed up (99% of .....

Friendship, Love & Truth

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“True friend is someone who might disagree with your choices in life yet support you anyway & tell it to your face, not behind your back!” Came up with these lines today when I was thinking about all the friendships I ever had in my 30 years of living on this planet. It pretty much sums it all up, don’t you think? In my lifetime this far, I’ve met and made a lot of friends and undeniably some of us bonded, these are the people that I would lovingly refer to as my besties. Unfortunately some of these friendships crashed and burned, leaving dark memories behind. Have to admit that I still found myself grief for some of these people .....

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